It happened that I was looking for an audio book, so I scrolled down the availables at my public library resolved to choose the first thing that got my attention. “Educated” was a big deal when it came out several years ago, with both commercial and literary appeal. I even had a copy in the house that I had found on the street, but got rid of it in the Great Winnowing before my move to Seoul, and before I found the time to read it.
Tara Westover had an unusual childhood, to put it mildly, and has acquired the strength of mind and command of prose to relate the story of her growing up in a very interesting way. The story is much more about abuse and family dysfunction than I was expecting, and it made me a big believer in OSHA and child labor laws. Tara and various members of her family have numerous near-death experiences working for her father, a contractor and owner of a junkyard. She endures horrific psychological and physical abuse by an older brother, and is gaslighted about it, at the time and also later.
As she manages to escape, first by passing a test to get into Brigham Young University and (after many initial struggles to adapt to life outside her eccentric, wildly Mormon, government-avoidant family) later impressing her professors sufficiently to win a scholarship to Cambridge, where she eventually gets a Ph.D. in history. Over the course of the decade this takes, she comes to understand the toll that her family has taken on her own sense of reality, and becomes estranged from many of them, particularly her parents and some of her siblings.
Looking back a day after I finished it, my overwhelming impression is that though it was well-written and engaging, and though I am happy for Tara on her escape from a narrow and constricted life, I think I could have spent my time better than reading this book. Horrific memoirs of abuse always feel faintly voyeuristic to me, and I should have realized that this is what “Educated” would be.
Also, and it sounds mean to say this, but this is the sort of book taste-making coastal elites love because it confirms their prejudices about religious people in the heartland in an gratifying way — there’s abuse, but also a happy ending. Among many more ordinary readers there seems to be a strong love for memoirs of dysfunction and abuse — what else can explain the mysterious success of “Angela’s Ashes,” for example?
I think I need to read some more Barbara Pym. The world is too much with me.